“Various sex techniques are important but they don’t mean much without a deep understanding of what makes your woman turned on.”
– Anonymous
- UNDERSTAND YOUR WOMAN
Many men today don’t take time to figure what it is that their ladies
really want. They assume sex is like a pair of socks or face cap or all
such items that have the ‘one size fits all’ tag. Wrong! For you to
score those awesome points in bed, you need to know your lady in and
out. Take time to ask her about things that turn her on and find fun
ways to make these things come alive.
There are different strokes for different folks. Some ladies get
turned on by listening to Rock Music, others get turned on by having
mild liquor, chocolate and stuff. Some others are turned on by beards
and facial hair, others by the smell of male cologne and bla bla. The
onus is on you to discover her deepest fantasies and go right on to make
those happen.
- ORAL SEX IS MAGICAL
Men should master the act of giving their women a proper good sexual
feeling by giving ‘the head’. Bite gently, lick softly, and penetrate
the honey pot with the tongue if you desire to get the bell in her head
ringing.
- FOCUS ON HER BOOBS
However good your sex game is the moment you forget to stimulate your
woman’s breasts and nipples, you stand to lose out on the core of
things. Take your time to work her body, let your hands and tongue be
active as crazy. Even when you get under sand penetrate, still maintain
contact with the lofty pair of boobs; cup them, squeeze mildly and
tickle the nipples and be sure to get her to a faster, bigger orgasm.
- TALK DIRTY RAW & DIRTY WITH HER
I doubt this requires any explanations for all the grown folks out
there. If in doubt, take a few shots of your favorite liquor and let
things take a natural order…
- FIND AND TICKLE HER G-SPOT
Doggy style is your best bet to hitting her G-spot. But then again
there’s a new approach to this: Get her to lower herself on her elbows
instead of her palms, then thrust in with gentle strokes initially; and
then work it into a faster, rhythmic penetration. As you get into her
like this, you are certain to hit and stimulate the G-spot.
- GENTLY BITE HER EAR AND NECK
Her ears and the neck regions beneath them can be super sensitive, so
if you know how to nibble on these parts you are sure to get her extra
in the zone, and on your way to a great orgasm.
- TAKE THE LEAD
Many men don’t understand that the phrase ‘ladies first’ doesn’t
apply in all aspects of life, especially in between the sheets. This is
Africa, how do you expect a lady to make the first move when as a
society we have all the many stereotypes within us? Not gonna happen!
You don’t want the impression that your woman is a whore, neither does
she want to come off as one; so the simple thing is get in the driver’s
seat and steer the vessel. Easy as ABC!
Women like to be pampered, forget all that feminism talk you hear on
twitter but they really intend for their men to take ABSOLUTE control of
things, especially in bed. So, initiate the idea; make the first moves,
put your mouth here and there, take her hands and slide them in and out
of places, unbutton this, unzip that and boom! You already know.
- TEASE HER BEFORE THE REAL DEAL
It is often said that the anticipation of something is better than
actually getting it. Think of when you were saving for your first car,
your first gold necklace, your first trip abroad and all that stuff. Do
you remember how it felt as you neared your target? Do you remember how
it made you sleepless during the night till you finally achieved it and
it didn’t mean so much anymore? Exactly. That’s how sex also feels. In
truth, chances are many guys will never be able to get their ladies into
great, multiple orgasms. But then again the feeling of getting her mind
build into pleasurable fantasies can be really great for you and could
serve as a catalyst for great sex.
- BE PRESENT & EXPLORE POSITIONS
Don’t just take off her clothes and do the pedestrian stuff every
other day. Nah. In popular Twitter parlance, not every time do
missionary, sometimes have quickie in the kitchen or in the car with
seat reclined, AC and windows up. Banging!
- READ THIS ALL OVER AGAIN
Now, go out there and have an amazeball ‘sexperience’. Also, if you
know anything we have omitted here, feel free to drop us a comment or
two. Enjoy!
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